26 Harsh Lessons That Everybody Needs to Learn

‘Failure is part of life’
26 Harsh Lessons That Everybody Needs to Learn

It’s tempting to sit around and fantasize about a better life, but if you actually want things to change, there’s one very necessary step: You have to put in the work. 

A Redditor recalled that after spending a good portion of their younger years coping with their feelings of sadness and dejection by promising that they’d “make something” of themselves eventually, they realized that positive progress isn’t that simple. “The truth is, eventually doesn’t come if you don’t make it come,” they wrote. “Improvement has to be proactive. You CAN end up 40 years old, living with your parents, playing video games all day, and with no motivation.” 

This isn’t the only happiness, the fact that nobody cares and how quickly your life can change direction.

DueTrans... . 3y ago . Edited 3y ago Children's first bullies are often their parents Edit : Thank you for the award Edit 2 : Thank you for the awards 1.5K ...
mobettastan60 3y ago Your life can be changed forever in the blink of an eye. You have to deal with it or die. I'm 62, I went to run errands one day with my beautiful wife of 42 years and I came home 2 hrs later a widower. She died of a massive heart attack in the enger seat. That was about 13 months ago, it's been hard, but I'm still here thanks to some wonderful people in my life. 3.1K ...
Slade_Riprock . 3y ago Most people should not be on social media of any kind because they cannot handle what it does to them mentally. It is not about socialization its about corporations monetizing your life. 1.6K ...
continue_Banca_3223 . 3y ago Whatever you say can and will be used against you. 4K ... + More replies
TechnicalMiddle8205 . 3y ago Physical appareance matters. Almost everyone is shallow, and if you are ugly, people might treat you as inferior and you will have disadvantages in almost every aspects of life (i.e pretty privilege or Halo effect, look that up) (As an ugly person I confirm) 6K ...
My_Mykinn . 3y ago Some people will hurt you, and they won't care how you feel about it. 45K ... + More replies
sequoiakelley.33 ago You gotta walk your dogs. 18K ... + More replies
Perma-Frost9 . 3y ago Failure is part of life. 17K ... + More replies
sammiebud 3y ago Edited 3y ago Just because you go out of your way for people, it doesn't mean they will do the same for you. Edit: I didn't expect this comment to get so many up votes and replies as it has. Thank you for the awards too For those calling me out saying 'I shouldn't expect anything back or I'm selfish that 'I don't go out of my way to help others without expecting anything in return' that's not what my comment said. All I'm saying is, be careful who you drop everything for. ... I 19K
squid516 . . 3y ago Bad things can happen to good people. Good things can happen to bad people. It's unfair. It's life. 33K ... + More replies
 . 3y ago You can love someone with all of your heart and not be loved back in the same way. 38K ... + More replies
Sorripto . 3y ago Life is not automatically easier just because you're a good person. 18K ... + More replies
notwantingkids . 3y ago Not everyone likes you 32K ... + More replies
paul_is_on_reddit : 3y ago .. celebrities and influencers need us more than we need them.. 6.4K ... + More replies
 . 3y ago You don't realize the good/best times as they are happening 22K ... + More replies
PressGauze . 3y ago Your first relationship most likely won't be your last. 10K ... + More replies
420catloveredm 0 3y ago You can become disabled unexpectedly at any point in your life. Make sure you're taking advantage of the abilities you have while you have them. :) 56K ... + More replies
Overwhelme... . 3y ago . Edited 3y ago Sometimes you're the bad guy Holy shit this blew up 44K ... + More replies
SuvenPan . 3y ago Just because someone is you family doesn't mean they have your best interests at heart. 29K ... + More replies
IWindsOfMidgets 3y ago 00 Depression, an illness, a bad upbringing and many more: These are not excuses to treat people badly. If someone is nice to you then these are not excuses to treat them like shit. And if you do, they are not required to forgive you. No one is required to give you a second chance. 3.5K ...
Popaqua 3y ago I thought I'd be happy when I graduated college, or when I got my first apartment, or when I bought my first home. Don't expect happiness to be at the finish line. Happiness comes from yourself, in the now. Enjoy the process. 12K ... + More replies
jownesv . 3y ago Nobody cares! So just go for it, everyone's busy with themselves to pay too much attention to what you are doing. 2K ... + More replies
RyotsGurl 3y ago The probability of you making it as a professional gamer/streamer/YouTuber isn't worth quitting your job. You have a higher chance of getting hit by a car or winning a million dollar lottery. (Not saying give up. But be realistic. Keep a job that'll pay the bills while you try) 5.9K ...
mybi-ass. . 3y ago Your Trauma is not your fault but it is your responsibility. 14K ... + More replies
ZombieRichardNixonx 3y ago It won't just happen. I spent a lot of my early 20s being sad and defeatist, feeling sorry for myself. I always coped with this by telling myself that I'd make something of myself eventually, and meet a woman eventually, and be happy eventually. The truth is, eventually doesn't come if you don't make it come. Improvement has to be proactive. You CAN end up 40 years old, living with your parents, playing video games all day, and with no motivation. Nothing will prevent that from happening other than you. 9.8K ...
 . 3y ago It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness; that is life. - Jean- Luc Picard 5.2K ... + More replies

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